And now, two years later, she is quiet, with the kind of reserve hoisted on a child who knows that her world can change in a minute, who knows that her role in a ‘family’ now exists on the periphery, not the center. And in spite of – or maybe because of – these circumstances, she is an extraordinary student, with a real love of learning, and ability to focus on her schoolwork. The tragedies in her young life have given her a real compassion for others: she’s the one who voluntarily helps the teacher, who hands out papers, who takes the younger ones to the bathroom. And she’s the one who still gets frightened when she hears talk of the tsunami.
Most kids who suffered from the tsunami received a scholarship. Government subsidies, free school lunches, but Mak’s situation was complex. To start, she had no id card. When the tsunami swept away houses, it also swept away identity papers, legal plot papers, etc. And then - nobody really wanted her.
The group, ‘We Love Thailand’, quickly founded to help kids just like Mak, provided schooling and care until she qualified for primary school, but according to the principal, Mak was the worst case she’d ever seen. “When she has an ear infection, the family either didn’t have the money – or refused to pay - for medical treatment. Inside the house, there are only a few mattresses in the concrete rooms, and piles of clothing - but none for Mak. She wears her cousin’s discarded clothing. She had no toys - nothing of her own. And the principal paid for Mak’s transport to school with her own money – and bought her extra food, since the child is undernourished.
And that’s when the donation started to burn a hole through my money belt! |
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